Life’ing isn’t about having it all figured out.
It’s about evolving, unlearning, relearning—grief, growth, gratitude, and everything in between.
Some days, it feels like therapy.
Writing is how I move through what I’m still learning to name.
“The middle is messy, but it’s also where the magic happens.” – Brene Brown
To You: My Mother, the Person
A reflection on the quiet strength, unresolved distance, and unexpected tenderness I shared with my mother. This is how I came to see her not just as “Mom,” but as a woman—with her own rhythm, resilience, and fire. And how,…
Insecure or Just Not Considered? When “By the Ways” Make You the Problem
When you’re left out of the conversation but expected to go along anyway, it’s not overreacting—it’s a boundary. And sometimes, choosing yourself means no longer twisting to fit where you were never truly considered.
Becoming Someone Who Loves Stillness
There was a time when silence unnerved me and constant motion felt safer than stillness.
But after everything fell away—the job, the urgency, the grief—I softened into the quiet. Now, I’m protective of it.
Unrooted: A Season of Moving, Mourning, and Returning to Myself
A personal reflection on what happens when the noise stops—when grief, disorientation, and the weight of life transitions catch up.
A Life Outside the Blueprint
A Life Outside the Blueprint traces the choices that shaped me—relationships that awakened me, cultural expectations I didn’t fit, and a quiet refusal to disappear into roles that never felt like mine. This is the story of claiming a different…
Childfree: A Quiet Rebellion
From an early age, I sensed I was different. I didn’t dream of a white dress or cradle baby dolls—I craved freedom. In a world that asked women to shrink, smile, and stay small, I made a different choice.